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Sit Back, Relax and Enjoy

09 Jul

This fantastic interview with Stephen Fry was too insightful to keep to myself. It was shared as a tweet by Robert Somerville (gurubob).

What Stephen shares on his views of  our behavior and life mysteries will give you something to think about with regard to technology, social networking, learning and how we interact with others.

Sit back, relax and enjoy “the flight”.  The captain has advised us that this trip will take about 30 minutes.

STEPHEN FRY: WHAT I WISH I’D KNOWN WHEN I WAS 18 from Peter Samuelson on Vimeo.

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MLM Skills Training – Why the System Matters

15 Jun

You have a new business partner. They made the decision to join you on this life changing journey. In order for them to get to this point, they had to invest some money and time. Now that they’ve agreed, your new partner is going to have to figure out a way to meet new people, risk rejection, dedicate time to learn new skills, and a lot more. For some, these actions can be hard emotionally.

For me personally, most times I’ve decided to expand myself and go for something new, the second I’ve said yes and committed my Lizard Brain begins to create all sorts of reasons why this will not work for me. My emotions begin to get all wrapped up in the imagined difficulty of the task.

As a leader in the network marketing profession it is critical that you have a way of helping your new partner keep their Lizard Brain at bay. So how do you keep the Lizard away?

BELIEF

By building up your new partners belief in their ability to build this business. What if you too are just starting out and you are just barley keeping your own Lizard at bay. Do you have to do this all alone?  NO This is where your MLM skills training system will come into play. Your Tribe of cheerleaders will be there to help you.

Yes I realize there are a lot of people out on the internet selling their systems. Telling you on their video’s and with their marketing that they put hundreds of people into their down line in 3 days. But, where they their for those people when the Lizard attacked? And you know he will.

Most people in the profession of network marketing are building their business along side their full-time job. Knowing this fact makes it vital to your success to have a network marketing skills training system that includes a tribe of people that are willing to help you build your people. Build their BELIEF. A way for your new partner to have a person to reach out to no matter where they are in the world.

Once I understood and realized how vital it was to have a Tribe of supportive, live people available for my new partner to talk to, even if I was 35,000 feet in the air, I knew that I’d found a priceless gift with the Mentoring for Free System.

Expect Success,
Debi Talbert (859) 409-0026

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The Roller Coaster Ride of a Lifetime

02 Feb

As I continue on my Network Marketing Education journey, there are times it feels very, very much like a roller coaster ride.


“Millenium Force” Roller Coaster POVThe best bloopers are a click away

I have moments where I feel the total rush and thrill of the ride and am loving every moment of it. Then there are the times when I ask myself “What the heck am I doing?”

What helps to keep my network marketing education journey away from the extreme highs and extreme lows is a method I have learned from reading the book The Slight Edge: Secret to a Successful Life. The Slight Edge is a simple philosophy that believes success comes from doing small activities EVERYDAY that move you toward growth in your business.

As a Network Marketing Professional, your job description is to get people to make a decision. A decision to either join you as a business partner or buy your product. I personally only work with the volunteers. So NO is a decision. Know that has also helped me to say off the roller coaster.

I personally have found that there are 2 main reasons why I end up on the roller coaster.

  1. I tie emotions to the outcome – remembering that NO is a decision really, really helps me with not tie my emotions to the outcome.
  2. I have free will – I can either do the activities I know are working for others, or I can not do the activities.

Here are ways that have helped keep me off the roller coaster and in action:

  1. Having a clear written plan of what 3 – 5 activities I want to do each day
  2. Following the proven system that others have used, not reinventing my own
  3. Using the “reverse calendar” and blocking off specific times in my day to work my home business
  4. Giving myself credit for what I have done, not beating myself up for what I have not done
  5. Finding a “tribe” that supports and encourages me
  • The reverse calendar is a backwards schedule of the task ahead, broken down into manageable little steps, “units that you can see yourself accomplishing.

Reach out to others who have had success with what you are working on. Ask questions, compare what you have done to what they are going. Maybe you just need to change one little thing.

Remember, there is no such thing as failure, only feedback. You will find that strength to get back up. Here is a video that might help you with this:  Nick Vujicic – (motivational speaker)

Expect Success – Debi Talbert

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Zero divided by Zero = Zero

27 Jan

I am passionate about empowering those who are looking for a hand up, not a hand out. The direction our current President would like to lead our country dose not sit well with me. I am truly appreciate of the fact that I am still able to say that.

One of the ways I empower people is via education so that the individual can do some critical thinking; ask questions, think about the answer, ask more questions if necessary. With the end goal being to lead to an informed decision.

Maybe this story I read over at Glen Meakem’s Success Through Leadership will help you begin to do some critical thinking.

An economics professor at a local college made a statement that he had never failed a single student before, but had once failed an entire class. That class had insisted that President Obama’s socialism way of thinking worked, and that no one would be poor and no one would be rich, a great equalizer.

So the professor decided to try out an experiment on this class. He informed the students that all grades would be averaged and everyone would receive the same grade so no one would fail and now would receive an A.

After the first test, the grades were averaged and everyone got a B. The students who studied hard were upset and the students who studied little were happy. As the second test rolled around, the students who studied little had studied even less and the ones who studied hard decided they wanted a free ride too, so they studied little. The second test average was a D! No one was happy. When the third test rolled around, the average was an F.

As the tests proceeded, the scores never increased because bickering, blame and name-calling all resulted in hard feelings and no one would study for the benefit of anyone else. The entire class failed – to their great surprise by the way!

Although this is a story for illustration purposes. Image what would happen if this small size experiment took place in your child’s classroom.

I believe ultimately the great equalizer plan will fail because when the reward is great, the effort to succeed is great, but when the reward is taken away, no one will try or want to succeed.

You cannot multiply wealth by dividing it. ~ Adrian Roger

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The Elephant is Free

19 Jan

When a circus elephant is a baby,  small and weak, one leg is tied with a rope to a wooden stake. In the beginning this baby tries to break free of the rope; however the rope is too strong. So the baby is convinced and trained that breaking free is impossible. Years later, when the elephant is grown, big and strong, the elephant is easily constrained by a rope. The limitations have been ingrained from the time the elephant was a baby; therefore the elephant does not even try to break free. The elephant believes that what was once was true will always be true. The elephant is imprisoned in the limiting belief that the rope is too strong, even though a fully grown elephant could easily and effortless break free from the bond to it’s leg.

About three years ago, I was like the Circus elephant; bond to my limiting beliefs. Convinced and trained that what was once true, would always be true. That is about the time I found the book Success in Ten Steps. Through the book I found Mentoring for Free and through Mentoring for Free I found “The Tribe”.

My life changed in a moment.

Since that time, I have been reborn. In his book Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill describes using imaginary council meetings to achieve his voluntary rebirth. When I downloaded that book, I came across a real live voluntary counsel. This counsel was the beginning of my network marketing education. By keeping myself in consistent touch with this counsel, my limiting beliefs have disappeared one, by one.

“The Tribe” has helped me learn to use autosuggestion in the form of self talk to make new impressions on my subconscious mind. I stay connected to the knowledge that is shared each week and continue to learn how to build my network marketing relationships. I’ve also learned how to pass on what I’ve been learning to others. This sharing has helped me to reinforce my new skills. My progress at times seemed slow; however now I am in possession of the power that enables me to throw off discouragement, ignore fear, overcome procrastination and freely act upon inspiration that comes to me. These days in my head there is no longer negative chatter. What actually goes on in my head are amazing ideas, thoughts; inspirations.  I act on them and miracles are happening.

Some moments in life you know right away are life changing; birth of a child, marriage, death, graduation, divorce. Others take a little longer to realize that the act was a life changing moment.

The Elephant is free…..
Break Free from Your Bonds

Remember, there is no such thing as failure; only feedback.  – Debi Talbert

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